Great Things Can Happen If You Listen

# Great Things Can Happen If You Listen Listening takes time… Every person has his or her own purpose in life. This means we all travel our own journey. However, when paths cross it provides us with opportunity, we just need to listen for it. When we come across someone else who crosses our path for a conversation you could be very surprised with what you may walk away with. We may come from different backgrounds or experiences, but many a time we have something we share. Have you ever met anyone and just found a 'spark' when you listen to them? I'm not talking romantic, I mean the type that makes you feel like you are just simply chatting to a friend who gets you. I notice this happens a lot in conversations I have with fellow networking members or guests on my podcast. I took the step to join a couple of memberships online a few years ago, to find like-minded visionaries like myself, so I could learn, support, and simply create bonds. In the end, I created a number of connections I am so appreciative of now. ## Not All of Us Are on the Same Page in Our Journey Regardless, every now and then you may cross paths with someone who sparks interest. I discovered this in the first membership of women in business I joined. This group is made up of many women who run their own businesses, but the best part is, that we are all very different. No one is to be compared and no one is on the exact same path. One thing when running a business on your own is the solitude you may feel, especially with online businesses. However, putting your hand up or your voice out there within communities or such, helps us feel included in some way and realise we're not alone. ## First Step is to Take Note and Listen There is a transfer of energy in every conversation to be had and that equates to the effort we put in — time and patience. We are in a world of Social Media and fast-paced information transfer. So the art of conversation is slowly losing its finesse. I am a fast talker and that comes down to my childhood, it's simply my linguistic style. However, when it's time to meet people I take note to slow down my thought process and just listen. Really take in what is being said. By doing so I have learned that every conversation I have had has enabled either one of us the chance to inspire the other. ## Conclusion Besides, not every conversation is going to be an even transfer of 'energy.' Sometimes it may only go one way and there's nothing wrong with that. Not everyone is on the same journey. But most importantly, as the saying goes… 'Don't judge a book by its cover.' Taking time to listen is paramount. So I hope that this blog post, however you have come across it, plants a little reminder seed to really give your next conversation with someone your time.